So, Yesterday was my birthday and we (some family) all went to Kanki and had the hibachi, which I think is always fun. It did not disappoint. We all had a great time and afterwards my husband and our kids went to a bar called Marcom to meet some other friends.
This bar was what I like to call a dive bar. A real 'salt of the earth' type of people there, beards, no teeth and super nice. The drink special was vodka, $3. My daughter, my husband's son and I had vodka and my husband and my daughter's bf had Heiniken. I believe that was the most exotic beer they had there :)
My friends, Kendra and Stephany showed up after our drinks arrived with their boyfriends. We sat and talked and I got drunk too quick due to the pain killers I am taking. So we left at about 10:30, which is early for us, but I didn't want to end up over a toilet praying to the porcelain god. My husband is extremely good about taking care of me. I am lucky to have him.
Dear Jan,
Happy one month anniversary !! I don't recall ever being happier than I am and its attributed all to you .It's hard to believe its only been four weeks cause I feel as though I've known you for years . You are a special lady. A wonderful and caring mother . A kind, warm and gentle person who lights up the room just with her presence . I'm so proud to have you on my side .. I've posted th...is on your wall with your consent... I'm an unknown in your world so
I wanted all your friends to know how special you are to me... As you know I'm not a big fan of FB.I think it has its role as an adjunct to communication in these busy times . I do however think people lose track of their words forgetting that the WALL is a public forum. Calling one out or speaking negatively on the wall is no different than being in a room full of people and doing the same.. We've all lost touch of what a cup of joe or a beer can do when it comes to showing concern for a friend we think is off track .. I'm off point so let me regroup and close by saying thank you for making me happier than I deserve. I look forward to the future with a smile and with you in hand in hand. I love you my J-Wow.. Have a great day !
Dw
This was on my friend Jan's facebook page. Ridiculous. I really want to post something along the lines of...don't worry I will tell you what I think in front of your face and a room full of people. I also want to ask her if she's run a background check on the idiot yet. Also, I love the part where he says "a wonderful and caring mother". Would you say that if you knew her son is about to be or has already been shipped off to foster care? Would you say that if you knew her 10 year old tells her what to do?
I really can't tell you why I am so pissed off about this whole thing. Maybe it is because I have been through thick and thin with this girl and her silly lifestyle pisses me off because it is seriously detrimental. She is going to get hurt..
Sometimes, the choices a friend makes may be the wrong ones, but it is that person's mistake to make. It's hard to watch someone you care about do something you don't agree with, but there's nothing you can do about it. The actual problem that you have though, is that this 'woman' obviously has such low self esteem, that she has the 'cockadoodle do' syndrome...'any cock will do'. It obviously is very important to her, gives her some sort of missing validation to the point that her REAL relationships (you, her son, heck, even this new 'gushing' bf, etc) will NEVER be a priority in the hunt for cock.
ReplyDeletePlus, after reading your last post, pleasepleaseplease don't EVER share a glass with this 'woman'. omG herpes highway.
OMG, you have me laughing hysterically!
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