So, Yesterday was my birthday and we (some family) all went to Kanki and had the hibachi, which I think is always fun. It did not disappoint. We all had a great time and afterwards my husband and our kids went to a bar called Marcom to meet some other friends.
This bar was what I like to call a dive bar. A real 'salt of the earth' type of people there, beards, no teeth and super nice. The drink special was vodka, $3. My daughter, my husband's son and I had vodka and my husband and my daughter's bf had Heiniken. I believe that was the most exotic beer they had there :)
My friends, Kendra and Stephany showed up after our drinks arrived with their boyfriends. We sat and talked and I got drunk too quick due to the pain killers I am taking. So we left at about 10:30, which is early for us, but I didn't want to end up over a toilet praying to the porcelain god. My husband is extremely good about taking care of me. I am lucky to have him.
Dear Jan,
Happy one month anniversary !! I don't recall ever being happier than I am and its attributed all to you .It's hard to believe its only been four weeks cause I feel as though I've known you for years . You are a special lady. A wonderful and caring mother . A kind, warm and gentle person who lights up the room just with her presence . I'm so proud to have you on my side .. I've posted th...is on your wall with your consent... I'm an unknown in your world so
I wanted all your friends to know how special you are to me... As you know I'm not a big fan of FB.I think it has its role as an adjunct to communication in these busy times . I do however think people lose track of their words forgetting that the WALL is a public forum. Calling one out or speaking negatively on the wall is no different than being in a room full of people and doing the same.. We've all lost touch of what a cup of joe or a beer can do when it comes to showing concern for a friend we think is off track .. I'm off point so let me regroup and close by saying thank you for making me happier than I deserve. I look forward to the future with a smile and with you in hand in hand. I love you my J-Wow.. Have a great day !
Dw
This was on my friend Jan's facebook page. Ridiculous. I really want to post something along the lines of...don't worry I will tell you what I think in front of your face and a room full of people. I also want to ask her if she's run a background check on the idiot yet. Also, I love the part where he says "a wonderful and caring mother". Would you say that if you knew her son is about to be or has already been shipped off to foster care? Would you say that if you knew her 10 year old tells her what to do?
I really can't tell you why I am so pissed off about this whole thing. Maybe it is because I have been through thick and thin with this girl and her silly lifestyle pisses me off because it is seriously detrimental. She is going to get hurt..
Tuesday, July 31, 2012
Saturday, July 28, 2012
Internal rambling..
I can't stop thinking about what a bitch my friend Jan is. The more I think about things the more little theories that cross my mind.
I went out with her about 2 weeks ago on a Thursday night and after she started getting drunk, she started getting all touchy-feely with me. Now I haven't mentioned we were out with her new 'toy' and a neighbor couple of hers. Severral hours into the night we all decided to head to some bar called Neptune. I'd never been there and had no clue how far it was from where we were. So, I decided I wanted to ride on one of the bicycle taxis. It's like one of those giant 3 wheel bikes with a seat in place of a basket. Jan wanted to ride with me also. Ok, the guy gets to pedaling, next thing I know she has reached around and has her hand on his dick. WTF??? Really Jan? Wtf is wrong with you? She tells me, 'oh I feel his dick'. Good Lord. So he pulls into this alley and gets off the bike. Ummmm....remember I have no idea where we are going anyway. He walks over to Jan and pulls her boobs out. Oh fuck....is a rape about to occur or is she gonna fuck him here and now? Then he starts to suck them. She eventually tells him to stop and then he wants pictures. Ok she says.
Finally he gets back on the bike and takes us like 500 yards. Jan's new toy is standing in front of the bar practically jumping up and down screaming 'where have you been'? I'm like uh-nuh *shoulder shrug*
The point of this story is to illustrate what kind of person she is. On a date with this new guy and she is already doing shit behind his back. OK.
Another story. About a year ago, she and her husband broke up so I started taking her downtown with me and introducing her to new people. So, she starts getting crazy and doing random shit with people. Fast forward some months and she starts dating a previous beau of one of my other friends. OK whatever she asked her. No problem. Fast forward a couple months, they break up (he says cuz she's too clingy) and she starts hanging out with someone else's boyfriend, not previous. This girl finds out and is pissed. She is now black lilsted from my group of friends that she hijacked. So now she is on match.com to find bf's.
I haven't even touched on the fact that this weekend she is in NY and her son's fate is hanging in the balance. He either goes to military school or foster care, but hey, free trip to NY right?? Who wouldn't choose NY??
Bleh....
I went out with her about 2 weeks ago on a Thursday night and after she started getting drunk, she started getting all touchy-feely with me. Now I haven't mentioned we were out with her new 'toy' and a neighbor couple of hers. Severral hours into the night we all decided to head to some bar called Neptune. I'd never been there and had no clue how far it was from where we were. So, I decided I wanted to ride on one of the bicycle taxis. It's like one of those giant 3 wheel bikes with a seat in place of a basket. Jan wanted to ride with me also. Ok, the guy gets to pedaling, next thing I know she has reached around and has her hand on his dick. WTF??? Really Jan? Wtf is wrong with you? She tells me, 'oh I feel his dick'. Good Lord. So he pulls into this alley and gets off the bike. Ummmm....remember I have no idea where we are going anyway. He walks over to Jan and pulls her boobs out. Oh fuck....is a rape about to occur or is she gonna fuck him here and now? Then he starts to suck them. She eventually tells him to stop and then he wants pictures. Ok she says.
Finally he gets back on the bike and takes us like 500 yards. Jan's new toy is standing in front of the bar practically jumping up and down screaming 'where have you been'? I'm like uh-nuh *shoulder shrug*
The point of this story is to illustrate what kind of person she is. On a date with this new guy and she is already doing shit behind his back. OK.
Another story. About a year ago, she and her husband broke up so I started taking her downtown with me and introducing her to new people. So, she starts getting crazy and doing random shit with people. Fast forward some months and she starts dating a previous beau of one of my other friends. OK whatever she asked her. No problem. Fast forward a couple months, they break up (he says cuz she's too clingy) and she starts hanging out with someone else's boyfriend, not previous. This girl finds out and is pissed. She is now black lilsted from my group of friends that she hijacked. So now she is on match.com to find bf's.
I haven't even touched on the fact that this weekend she is in NY and her son's fate is hanging in the balance. He either goes to military school or foster care, but hey, free trip to NY right?? Who wouldn't choose NY??
Bleh....
Friday, July 27, 2012
First one!
Today is the first day of this blog. I have decided I need a theraputic outlet for some of the things I think about on a daily basis. I could keep a diary but that could be found and mis-interpreted by the finder. I could bitch on facebook but then it would have to be somewhat anonymous so that I don't hurt anyones feelings and I want to be specific here. I will only tell certain people that I know of the address to this blog so that I can freely bitch about the rest! So let's get this party started!!
Last Friday I had some surgery on my hip and have been home bound for the week. Needless to say, I never want to do this again. Or at least these exact arrangements again. Let me explain:
My mother is here 'taking' care of me. I suppose everyone has different standards of care. Myself, I like a clean house, clean dishes, clean clothes and clean sheets. I guess this could be asking too much but I have a problem with living in filth.
Her and I have a strange relationship. She used to beat me as a child and I, over many years and years of therapy, have forgiven her. Well, for the most part. Being alone with her daily for a week has reminded me of all the torturous things she did to me as a child, as she continues to this day to do them. Hoping some how to break me. Too bad for her I am an adult now.
So, today after a week of just normal living, I vaccuumed the living room and hallway. Now I wasn't supposed to do this. As I've said I had hip surgery and am supposed to be immobile, but I have a giant Akita and he sheds. There was almost a thin carpet of Akita hair on the floor. I couldn't take it. I had to vaccuum. You would think my mother would also notice this mass of hair and vaccuum but she hasn't. I guess she is used to living that way. Luck was on my side because she left to go do some shopping of some sort (which she has been doing since her arrival a month ago) so I did it. The problem with all of this? I have only just punished myself by this action. I am in pain now all because her lazy ass. Thanks for your help mom.
Now on another note, I have a few friends not mass loads but a couple I hold dear. Several live in different states unfortunetly, but I love them and cherish them no less. One of them who lives near me, called me, 3 days after my surgery and told me she was going to come by on Thursday and see me. Well Thursday came and went. No friend. No call, no text, no nothing. So I text her the next day (toda) and say I guess you got held up. She replies 'i worked till 9pm and thought about calling you but didnt. OK. Then I see she had posted on facebook many hours before 9pm that she is DT (downtown) with her new toy (meaning some new guy she is dating) Are you fucking kidding me?? Your new toy? The only one getting played with bitch is you, you just don't know it yet. So I am pretty pissed that she threw me off for this douche she is dating (and he is a douche) and then tried to lie to me. Step off bitch! I am done being her friend when SHE wants it. Does anyone else have a friend like this? She also told me about 3 years ago we couldn't be friends anymore due to the fact she was trying to work things out with her husband and I was hindering that. Really? So I stood back and waited as a good friend should. What a buffoon I am.
Well the Olympics are starting so I will be back tomorrow. I hope you all enjoy my rants and bitching.
xo
Last Friday I had some surgery on my hip and have been home bound for the week. Needless to say, I never want to do this again. Or at least these exact arrangements again. Let me explain:
My mother is here 'taking' care of me. I suppose everyone has different standards of care. Myself, I like a clean house, clean dishes, clean clothes and clean sheets. I guess this could be asking too much but I have a problem with living in filth.
Her and I have a strange relationship. She used to beat me as a child and I, over many years and years of therapy, have forgiven her. Well, for the most part. Being alone with her daily for a week has reminded me of all the torturous things she did to me as a child, as she continues to this day to do them. Hoping some how to break me. Too bad for her I am an adult now.
So, today after a week of just normal living, I vaccuumed the living room and hallway. Now I wasn't supposed to do this. As I've said I had hip surgery and am supposed to be immobile, but I have a giant Akita and he sheds. There was almost a thin carpet of Akita hair on the floor. I couldn't take it. I had to vaccuum. You would think my mother would also notice this mass of hair and vaccuum but she hasn't. I guess she is used to living that way. Luck was on my side because she left to go do some shopping of some sort (which she has been doing since her arrival a month ago) so I did it. The problem with all of this? I have only just punished myself by this action. I am in pain now all because her lazy ass. Thanks for your help mom.
Now on another note, I have a few friends not mass loads but a couple I hold dear. Several live in different states unfortunetly, but I love them and cherish them no less. One of them who lives near me, called me, 3 days after my surgery and told me she was going to come by on Thursday and see me. Well Thursday came and went. No friend. No call, no text, no nothing. So I text her the next day (toda) and say I guess you got held up. She replies 'i worked till 9pm and thought about calling you but didnt. OK. Then I see she had posted on facebook many hours before 9pm that she is DT (downtown) with her new toy (meaning some new guy she is dating) Are you fucking kidding me?? Your new toy? The only one getting played with bitch is you, you just don't know it yet. So I am pretty pissed that she threw me off for this douche she is dating (and he is a douche) and then tried to lie to me. Step off bitch! I am done being her friend when SHE wants it. Does anyone else have a friend like this? She also told me about 3 years ago we couldn't be friends anymore due to the fact she was trying to work things out with her husband and I was hindering that. Really? So I stood back and waited as a good friend should. What a buffoon I am.
Well the Olympics are starting so I will be back tomorrow. I hope you all enjoy my rants and bitching.
xo
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